Gracious Grounds
Life Skills Assessment
Independent Living Application & Planning Tool
Instructions: For each skill below, select the option that best describes current ability. For any item marked Partially Independent or Not an Expectation / Not Applicable, please use the notes column to describe what kind of support is needed and who currently provides it. When you are finished, click Print / Save as PDF to save or print a copy.
Emergency and Safety Skills Fully
Independent
Partially
Independent
Not an Expectation
or Not Applicable
For any answer of "Partially Independent" or "Not an Expectation":
Describe Type of Support Needed and Who Provides This
Recognizing smoke alarm and other warning sirens
Evacuating unassisted in case of emergency
Calling 911, and willing to do so if needed
Identifying what is and is not an emergency
Communicating with emergency responders
Identifying guardian (if applicable) and contacting when needed for guidance
Spending one or more nights home alone
Locking and unlocking doors
Knowing what to do if locked out of home/apartment
Recognizing when not to open the door or let strangers in
Identifying and avoiding personal allergies (nuts, bees, etc.)
Managing any allergic reactions, asthma, etc.
Caring for minor wounds
Seeking out trusted adults when in need of help
Knowing when to use social security number and how to keep it safe
Understanding the consequences of signing a contract
Protecting privacy online; not putting self or others in danger
Avoiding harmful or dangerous situations
Recognizing junk mail, spam email, scam phone calls or texts
Healthcare Skills Fully
Independent
Partially
Independent
Not an Expectation
or Not Applicable
For any answer of "Partially Independent" or "Not an Expectation":
Describe Type of Support Needed and Who Provides This
Taking medication without supervision and on time
Refilling prescriptions
Not taking someone else's medication
Finding over the counter medication if needed
Reading medication labels correctly and following instructions
Recognizing and addressing needs related to cold, flu, fever, and digestive problems
Recognizing when to go to the emergency room, urgent care, or schedule an appointment with a doctor
Knowing who to contact if not feeling well and following a plan for care
Going to the doctor or dentist as needed (including transportation)
Keeping a sleep schedule (7–10 hours/night) and not disturbing others at night
Getting regular physical exercise
In the event of accessing medical care without a support person available, indicate if able to handle independently:
YES NO
Can take own temperature using a thermometer and identify if fever exists
Able to contact and get to urgent or emergency care
Call a doctor and schedule an appointment
Locate health insurance card or information
Provide birthdate, height, and approximate weight
Provide important medical information
Sexual Health Skills Fully
Independent
Partially
Independent
Not an Expectation
or Not Applicable
For any answer of "Partially Independent" or "Not an Expectation":
Describe Type of Support Needed and Who Provides This
Taking care of menstrual periods; maintains and uses supplies
Understanding consent, including how to refuse, give, and recognize consent
Ability to confidently say no to peers or others
Accessing and using various forms of contraceptives: birth control, condoms, etc.
Recognizing public spaces versus private spaces
Recognizing private behavior versus public behavior
Hygiene and Personal Appearance Fully
Independent
Partially
Independent
Not an Expectation
or Not Applicable
For any answer of "Partially Independent" or "Not an Expectation":
Describe Type of Support Needed and Who Provides This
Brushing teeth daily
Showering daily
Washing hair
Grooming (hair care, nail care, etc.)
Shaving as needed
Using deodorant daily
Toileting
Washing hands after using restroom
Dressing self
Choosing appropriate and clean clothes to wear based on weather and occasion
Laundry Skills Fully
Independent
Partially
Independent
Not an Expectation
or Not Applicable
For any answer of "Partially Independent" or "Not an Expectation":
Describe Type of Support Needed and Who Provides This
Putting dirty clothes in hamper or other appropriate place
Operating a washer and dryer
Cleaning lint screen after each drying cycle
Folding clothes and putting clothes away
Washing laundry weekly including sheets and towels
Nutrition and Dietary Skills Fully
Independent
Partially
Independent
Not an Expectation
or Not Applicable
For any answer of "Partially Independent" or "Not an Expectation":
Describe Type of Support Needed and Who Provides This
Eating
Maintaining a generally balanced and nourishing diet
Recognizing the difference between healthy and unhealthy foods and beverages
Managing personal needs regarding food allergies, sensitivities, or special diet
Preparing daily meals: breakfast, lunch, and dinner
Following a simple recipe, using measuring cups and spoons
Planning weekly meals for self and making a grocery list
Locating items in the store or online and purchasing within budget
Kitchen and Food Safety Skills Fully
Independent
Partially
Independent
Not an Expectation
or Not Applicable
For any answer of "Partially Independent" or "Not an Expectation":
Describe Type of Support Needed and Who Provides This
Washing hands before eating and preparing food
Cleaning up following each meal or snack
Washing and putting away dishes
Loading and unloading dishwasher
Sanitizing kitchen counters and sink
Sweeping and mopping kitchen floors
Storing perishable items in the refrigerator
Recognizing if food is bad (expired dates, color, smell, etc.) and not eating it
Using blades safely: sharp knives, grater, can opener
Using small appliances: microwave, toaster, coffee maker, air fryer
Using stovetop and/or oven (indicate if only one is used)
Remembering to turn off stovetop and/or oven after use
Money Management Fully
Independent
Partially
Independent
Not an Expectation
or Not Applicable
For any answer of "Partially Independent" or "Not an Expectation":
Describe Type of Support Needed and Who Provides This
Making own purchases with card or cash
Comparing prices when shopping (identify sales, use coupons)
Recognizing the difference between needs and wants
Saving money for future needs
Determining available funds (bank account, EBT, etc.)
Planning for total amount of bills owed (rent, utilities, other expenses)
Managing benefits (Medicaid, Social Security, etc.)
Household Skills Fully
Independent
Partially
Independent
Not an Expectation
or Not Applicable
For any answer of "Partially Independent" or "Not an Expectation":
Describe Type of Support Needed and Who Provides This
Following a routine or system to accomplish cleaning tasks (calendar, check list, etc.)
Identifying appropriate cleaning products/tools to use for different cleaning jobs
Keeping trash picked up and in trash can
Recognizing full container (or smell) and taking trash bag to dumpster
Maintaining common spaces: dust, declutter, and clean as needed
Cleaning floors: using a vacuum, broom, or mop
Maintaining bedroom: free of food or trash, cleaning surfaces and floor
Maintaining bedding: removing sheets and pillow cases, washing, making bed
Cleaning bathroom sink/counter/mirror
Cleaning toilet
Cleaning bathtub/shower
Knowing how to get rid of and avoid insects or rodents
Identifying and reporting maintenance issues promptly (e.g., leaks, broken items, non-working appliances, or utilities)
Relational and Self-Advocacy Skills Fully
Independent
Partially
Independent
Not an Expectation
or Not Applicable
For any answer of "Partially Independent" or "Not an Expectation":
Describe Type of Support Needed and Who Provides This
Following social boundaries with different groups: family, friends, coworkers, strangers
Respecting others' personal space, time, and property
Being courteous to others and respecting differences
Avoiding inappropriate touching of others or self
Taking responsibility for own choices (and accompanying consequences)
Communicating needs and requesting assistance
Engaging in back-and-forth conversation with others
Effectively managing frustration, anger, boredom, excitement, and other emotions
Choosing a variety of appropriate free time activities
Participating in recreation and leisure activities with peers
Taking action when feeling lonely or wanting social connection
Participating in preferred community activities (clubs, church, gatherings, etc.)
Using problem-solving strategies and compromising
Working to develop and maintain supportive relationships
Maintaining emotional wellbeing
Making friends and keeping friends (male and female)
Resolving conflict between self and others, or seeking assistance to do so
Identifying relationships that may be harmful or dangerous, or if someone is taking advantage
Recognizing and reporting abuse, neglect, or danger
Recognizing the difference between an acquaintance and a friend
Saying no to negative influences or unsafe choices
Accepting others' boundaries and no for an answer
Advocating for self
Generally recognizing what actions are against the law
Applying appropriate phone/texting/posting manners and boundaries
Using electronics (phone, computer, video games, etc.) responsibly
Protecting self from exploitation in person and online
Developing a realistic plan, with appropriate steps to achieve a goal
Following a plan and steps involved to move toward a goal
Community Navigation and Employment Skills Fully
Independent
Partially
Independent
Not an Expectation
or Not Applicable
For any answer of "Partially Independent" or "Not an Expectation":
Describe Type of Support Needed and Who Provides This
Operate personal vehicle: car, motorized scooter, other (please describe)
Use public transportation: set up and ride to/from locations
Ride a bike/trike and follow bike safety
Cross streets safely: at stoplights, 4-way stops, stop signs
Look for and avoid moving traffic: parking lots, sidewalks, bike paths, etc.
Identify and follow safety signs (e.g., caution, do not enter, danger, etc.)
Using adaptive equipment or other tools (please describe)
Aware and alert in unfamiliar settings and when dark
Keeping cell phone on person when out of house/apartment
Completing forms: registration, application, etc.
Knowing types of jobs that are a fit based on skills, needs, and income
Looking for employment and knowing how to get assistance with this
Learning job tasks and maintaining stamina
Completing work-related tasks with acceptable quality
Completing work-related tasks with acceptable speed
Interacting with co-workers and supervisors
Asking questions and accepting constructive feedback
Transitioning to new job assignment with ease
Communication, Time Management and Scheduling Fully
Independent
Partially
Independent
Not an Expectation
or Not Applicable
For any answer of "Partially Independent" or "Not an Expectation":
Describe Type of Support Needed and Who Provides This
Verbal communication — receiving and speaking: greetings, simple instructions, etc.
Reading — newsletter, events calendar, task or grocery list, etc.
Writing — personal information, notes, lists
Using picture-based communication in place of printed text
Using an adaptive communication device (please describe)
Using a cell phone (or landline) for incoming and outgoing calls
Sending and receiving text messages
Checking and responding to personal voicemail
Checking and responding to personal email
Using apps on smartphone or tablet
Following an electronic or paper schedule for events or chores
Telling time (quiet hours, time for work/bus, what time to arrive for a scheduled appointment/event, etc.)
Setting and recognizing an alarm/alert on phone, watch, or clock
Managing morning routine: Get up and ready on time without assistance
Scheduling and attending personal appointments (haircut, activity, volunteering)
Recognizing availability or conflicts when adding to or editing personal calendar
Reviewing and identifying activities of interest and using Sign Up Genius
Arriving on time for commitments

Great job thinking about all of those skills! Celebrate the areas where you notice success.

How did you grow the skills you have now? What strategies can you use to grow success in other areas? Some things might always involve support from others — and that is okay.

If there are skills that would be important to develop, consider if they have never been expected. This is the time to set some small, achievable goals.

Thank you for taking the time to complete this assessment. We trust you will find this information useful as you plan for independent living.

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